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A story for those who've been hurt
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I have the best advice I can possibly to anyone looking for romance, or who has found romance. Experience it like there is no tomorrow, because you'll be surprised how quickly it can vanish.
You don't have to love, to know it can hurt. You don't have to experience, to know things change. You just have to listen, and hope for whatever comes, is the best possible. I won't preach about how you should be good, and listen to God or whatever, because that is your own personal choice on beliefs, but everyone of every race, religion, nationality, and difference has experienced love at one point and time. So for all of you who have been played, cheated on, hurt, or dumped, here's a story for you. You don't have to read this, but it's a story from my heart. I won't tell you, "READ THIS OR YOU'LL HAVE BAD LUCK FOR 50 YEARS!" Because that's unrealistic. But I will say it's got SOME potential or another. It's written by me, and although I'm a girl, I believe guys can relate to attachment to a certain someone who just doesn't care like you care.
Him and I... we met through a friend, and clicked immediately. It was almost like he was the missing piece of my puzzle, and I felt I found exactly what I had been searching for. But truth be told, he was my best friend's crush. She would have died for him, and I knew it. But yet-- I was crazy and went right in for the kill. There are two golden rules for friendship with laydees--
1) Do NOT let any man get between you and ANY friend. Regardless of what happened, it's completely and utterly pointless.
2) Don't date the man your friend is crushin' on (or their EX boyfriend) Wrong...
I asked her in the best manner possible, if she'd have a problem with him and I-- she said it would be alright. I asked her for reassurance, and she provided it. Him and I became one, and gained intense closeness. How could I do such a thing to such a wonderful friend? Indeed, Robert and I were acceptionally perfect for one another,but yet I knew deep down in my heart it would never work. Gradually, his calls tapered away, and I no longer heard from him, and it worried me. I began to think that when he said he loved me, it meant nothing. And if he cared, he'd be here like he used to be. I wanted him to stay with me so badly, but I couldn't mention it. When he finally gained the temperment to break such horrid news to me, I thoguht I had myself prepared. I was wrong.
His words were cold, and stung. I wanted to beg him, and tell him how much it hurt. And if he sailed away from me, he'd take the centermost piece of me. And I know he knew my intense feelings for him. But yet he walked away, and I cried the hardest in a long time.
He then went back to his ex girlfriend, and forgot all about me. I gathered courage one day to request answers. I asked timidly, like I knew I sounded, "What are we? You flirt with me.. and you're with someone else. What exactly is the deal Robert? I have to know.. Because it's tearing me apart waiting around and getting tons of signals that all mean nothing."
"Friends, Kimberly. We're friends." BAM... It was almost like he jolted a sharp knife in my already wounded heart.
His words struck quite hard, but there's a moral.
You ask, "Will my heart mend itself?"
It will, but you need time. To be honest, I am still not over him, and I doubt I will be for time to come. But have hope-- there is no such thing as false hope. Anything can happen, and if things aren't okay in the end, then it really isn't the end. If he or she moves along, then it means you must move along to. Because if you sent them free, and they do not return, then it means you are apt to move along to find a better, more finer fish in that large sea.
Happy Hunting to all those girls and guys who are looking for love. Charish it. And for all those players, and you, Robert, it's called kharma. It'll come back and bite you in the ass, and then you'll really be paying for your dues.
~~~Rhea, I love ya girl, keep movin', you'll make it. We'll get over Robert together.
E-mail me to chat, share stories, or for help. I am listening, regardless of who you are. I promise. I owe everyone that much.
Magicaledelishus@aol.com
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