111AAALessons ive learned so far in my life...plz read
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1st lesson
when you get into a relationship, NEVER say that you love the person right away because the feeling of bf/gf love cant be there yet no matter what you think, and if you do say it right away, if your relationship ends soon, or even in the future, itll be much harder on both of you
2nd lesson
in the end, most of the time, (unless ur parents abuse you or something cuz that is totally different) you get what you want much eaiser if you do what your parents say..thats kinda an obvious one...but it works
3rd lesson
when you get in a bf/gf relationship with somebody, no matter how in love you think that you are, theres always a chance that it wont last, so ALWAYS stick with your friends-they can usually make you happy when nobody else can..when/if the relationship ends, there will then be a shoulder to cry on and somebody to make you feel better about yourself
4th lesson
you start to pull apart relationships with people (friends, family, or bf/gf) if you always say that your right..of course, when you know that you are right, you should definitly stand your ground , but if you start an arguement and in a while you realize that your wrong, admit it and apologize..you will be much eaiser to get along with then
5th lesson
you start to realize that you are maturing when you take responsiblity for your actions and try to make them right
6th lesson
never stay with somebody if you make a mistake, and when you admit it and apologize, the other person says that they dont want to hear you say that you are "sorry"
7th lesson
also never stay with a person when you try to talk to them about something really important and they say that they dont want to hear about it (rememer though that everybody has bad days so also you have to forgive them if they dont listen to you, but dont be a pushover, and never try to keep a relationship going by not saying what you think just so that they wont get mad at you)
8th lesson
no matter how much pain you are in, theres always something much worse going on in someone elses life..not saying that your problem should be ok because of that, but think of how bad somebody else is and pray for them because for example, a broken heart isnt nearly as bad as being abused...i hope you get what im saying..please dont take that the wrong way
9th lesson
become friends with somebody whos considered a "loser"-everybody is pressuring everybody to become more popular, but if you stop to think about how you would like to be in the position where you have nobody to sit with at lunch, or nobody to be partners with in class...thats why ppl kill themselves, and if you need incentive to befriend somebody that isnt as popular as you..it doesnt only make the "loser" feel better, but you will too because you helped somebodys day/life be a little happier-the world has enough hate..why add more?
10th lesson
when you try to hold off crying for some reason itll make the pain last even longer
11th lesson
the slower you take a relationship, the longer it will last-im not saying to wait for ever to do sexual stuff and say emotional things just hold off till you are ready for a commitment-if you think that you are ready right away..still wait, because, then in the future there will be more to look forward to in your relationship
12th lesson
everything happens for a reason and no matter how sad you feel, things will get better so dont even think about killing yourself or anything drastic, just hang with ppl you love and let the tears flow...
I know that i only have learned a small part of the lessons i will learn in my life and id like to tell you that these lessons are easy to go by..it took me 14 years to figure them out and i still mess up on them a lot, i know ill go through so many more hard times, so im gonna have fun during my not so hard times.. life seems so short so live it and have fun...get help with your problems if you need it...if something is wrong, you deserve better, live your life as best as you can and after every mistake try to learn something from it...youll never be perfect, and niether will anybody else do dont try and dont expect it...i hope if your having problems everything will work out...plz ask me for advice or if you just wanna be friends..ill help you get through whatever your going through..so dont think irrationaly and do something..there is somebody who cares...and i definitly do..plz talk to me
to add me to msn or email me----
dbacker_bautista_1hotmail.com
or
bergevain_07hotmail.com
to add me to your aim----
laurenbean14
love,
lauren
xoxo
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