1 A reason why girls confuse and sometimes frustrate guys REPLY
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Well not all girls expect guys to do everything right its just when they ALWAYS do everything wrong is when we start hating it I mean i think guys would feel the same way too :P Like if he tells you he'll call you but he never does all the time or he's always late or just keeps on doing stuff that well is what hurts girls and i dunno bout u guys but i think that would apply to sum guys aswell. Not all girls expect their guy to kiss them or touch them or to be serious when they want them to though it is nice when they do spontaniously kiss you and tell you sweet things, its sweet and romantic and I mean you guys should be taught the art of romance :P if you did romance your girl a bit more youd be surprised about the results coz personally if i was treated that way i'd return the favor.And don't you guys forget that in the end all this is because the girl likes you or even loves you and wants you to show her that you do too (you guys can be confusing sumtimes too :P)
Well the whole public aspect to me well I never really expected my bf to flirt or kiss me infront of everyone thats sumthing I'm more than happy to share with him in private. I wouldn't get angry at him doing it in public either but that I don't think has ever been a real issue for me or let alone him. And the whole test of whether you care for us lol well i think romancing someone shows u care for them, i know alot of girls who love to be treated like a princess (that dont necesarilly mean using your money guys :P just the things you do and say little things that make a difference)
Ok now about the whole girls wont let you do things that they do themselves lol that is unfair but i normally think about these things before i say he cant do them, its not cool being a hypocrit. Its totally understandable that any guy would be jealous if your girl went out with a few 'guy friends' just like it is for us. I've been through this with my bf before and he said that he wouldnt do it if i didnt want him to but i trusted him even though a bit scared (it was is ex gf who hes still friends with and two other friends) and nothing happened in the end but because of this if i do go see a guy friend i would talk to him first about it because i know how it felt for me. lol ok the guys lookin at other girls is totally wrong and its also wrong for other girls to look at guys, some girls and guys dont see it that way but i do. I don't look at other guys because i have a bf who i think is the best guy in the world (no matter how upset he makes me sumtimes :P) and I expect the same from him which is exactly the way he feels too.
Ok impressing well i dun think there should be pressure on this, you should be urself in the end thats who theyre gunna love like hate etc so its better not trying to be someone ur not.
Finally id like to tell you well not all girls are the same there is some stereotype going around that may be true for sum but not for others, this reply is personally wat i think is true and right for me and maybe for sum other girls but may not be true for all. If you guys do have a problem with these issues you should ask the girl whos doin these things to you wat they really want and expect and maybe that'll make it so much easier for you. one last thing, guys dont go out with a girl who expects you to spend all your money on her it shouldnt work like that i mean the rule of the guy paying for dinner when you go out is something you should keep :P but money shouldnt be important in a relationship afterall the best things in life money can't buy and romance isnt all about paying for a girl and giving her expensive things :P its about complements and writing her letters, showing you care by listening to her problems, being there for her when times get tough or even just telling her how much u love and care for her basically going out of your way to make her happy... she'll prob return the favor :P
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