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A White Man's Opinion of Black Women
Rating: PG-13
Quality: (Quality: Unrated)
> > >Please take the time to read this it's good. Might make ya mad
though
> > >ladies but wait to you hear what the black lady has to say!!! J.T
> > >Guys I sent this to you so you could send it to some more black
>females!!!
> > >
> > >-----Original Message-----
> > >From: ROSETTA BROWN [mailto:rosetta_b2000@yahoo.com]
> > >Subject: Fwd: Fw: A white man's opinion of Black Women
> > >
> > >
> > >> This is deep! This is a letter from a white male
> > >> basically addressing
> > >> issues with black women he thinks needs addressing.
> > >> The sista's response
> > >> that follows is one of the most powerful I have ever
> > >> read and I was
> > >> compelled to send this out. All can feel free to
> > >> respond to this guy,
> > >> but you'll be hard pressed to articulate a response
> > >> as impressive as hers.
> > >>
> > >> She should have ended her letter with "Nuff Said".
> > >>
> > >> Name: Jason
> > >> Jason's dialogue begins here...
> > >>
> > >>
> > >> I'm not opposed to interracial dating, however,there
> > >> are some issues.
> > >>
> > >> Black women and Asian men (and to a lesser extent,
> > >> white men) are
> > >> definitely getting the "short end of the "stick",
> > >> from a dating
> > >> perspective.
> > >>
> > >>
> > >> Why?.....Trust me, the problem lies within black
> > >> women." This is not a
> > >> racist comment. Black women, on the whole, are not
> > >> perceived as being
> > >> "feminine" and "attractive" (by the Western World's
> > >> standards) by a
> > >> majority of males. Many perceive them as being
> > >> "manly",with characteristics
> > >> such as a deeper voice,
> > >> shorter hair, more bodily hair, baggy clothes, and a
> > >> lack of sexiness and
> > >> flirtatiousness."
> > >>
> > >> It's the nature of a man to consider overall
> > >> attractiveness when choosing a
> > >> date, and looks is a great part of this. This has
> > >> compelled many black men
> > >> to look for a white woman to date. Consequently,
> > >> many black males, which
> > >> compromise a significant segment of the population,
> > >> date white women.
> > >>
> > >> This leaves white males with no choice. Many, in an
> > >> effort to relieve their
> > >> loneliness, date Asian females. This leaves Asian
> > >> males with the short end
> > >> of the stick-along with black females.
> > >>
> > >> Due to the fact the African population is much
> > >> greater than the Asian
> > >> population, white males are also left out to a
> > >> lesser extent." Black
> > >> females have the highest rate of singularity of any
> > >> ethnic/gender group in
> > >> our country, and it's precisely due to their lack of
> > >> softness and
> > >> femininity both in personality and appearance.
> > >>
> > >> This is not a racist, mean comment-it's one meant to
> > >> educate and help
> > >> lonely people. If you really want to read more into
> > >> this, look at the
> > >> "general forum" I have many postings in there. The
> > >> solution?
> > >>
> > >> Many would fret at that word "solution", claiming I
> > >> think interracial
> > >> dating is
> > >> a "problem" needing to be "solved". who need a
> > >> partner-and should have one
> > >> and yes, I perceive these disparities as a problem.
> > >>
> > >> Black women have to shed their "macho masculine" and
> > >> unattractive character
> > >> and appearance. This will compel black men to
> > >> actually ENJOY dating black
> > >> women, which will mean more white women for white
> > >> men, which will mean more
> > >> Asian women for Asian men. There will be many less
> > >> lonely people in the
> > >> world-and it all stems from the masculinity of the
> > >> black female.
> > >>
> > >> Sorry, I know I'll offend some, but in my heart I
> > >> know I'm not a racist,
> > >> and it's for the better-and I'm not afraid to take
> > >> any irrational heat.
> > >> Many will agree with me, however. Anyone willing to
> > >> discuss this with me
> > >> can email me at w43cornell.edu; and I'll gladly
> > >> reply.
> > >>
> > >> Thanks,
> > >> Jason (p.s., I'm a white male, with a white
> > >> girlfriend!)
> > >>
> > >>
> > >>
> > >> The following is a response from Frances, a Sista!
> > >> Go Girl!!.....
> > >>
> > >> Jason,
> > >>
> > >> I appreciate your honesty and your opinion. I am a
> > >> black woman and I'm not
> > >> the least bit offended. I attribute your perspective
> > >> to a lack of exposure.
> > >> I realize that only age, maturity and an
> > >> introduction to what YOU'VE been
> > >> missing out on will change that.
> > >>
> > >> I will only entertain your ignorance for a moment,
> > >> but feel free to reply
> > >> and we'll keep the dialogue going. I live in
> > >> Washington, DC, and I have
> > >> never had a problem finding a man! What 'short
> > >> stick' are you talking
> > >> about! Don't fool yourself into thinking that white
> > >> men aren't attracted to
> > >> us just because you aren't.
> > >>
> > >> Black men love us; Asian men are fascinated by our
> > >> mystery; African men
> > >> admire our strength, intellect, and confidence;
> > >> Latin men adore our curves,
> > >> sensuality and rhythm; Italian men savor our style
> > >> and the variety in our
> > >> shades; Brits enjoy our quick wit and zest for life;
> > >> Australians love our
> > >> good conversation
> > >> and love for good beer (okay my love for good beer);
> > >> and I could go on and
> > >> on! It's only white 'American' men that admire us
> > >> secretly.
> > >>
> > >> You watch us at work, at school, in the street and
> > >> you want to get to know
> > >> us, but your shame won't allow it. You too are
> > >> fascinated by the mystic.
> > >> You like the way our brown skin glistens on your
> > >> pale white.....when we
> > >> shake your hand, that is. Short hair is sexy and
> > >> deep voices are
> > >> sensual...ask your granddad!
> > >>
> > >> Black women, my dear, are known nurturers. While
> > >> your mothers, grandmothers
> > >> and great-grands sat and drank tea... we were
> > >> feeding you, teaching
> > >> you...we raised you!
> > >>
> > >> But there's no need to get philosophical on
> > >> ya......let's keep it to the
> > >> here and now! My advice to you dear is to stop
> > >> watching Jenny Jones, Cops,
> > >> and Ricky Lake...the sistahs that you see on TV, are
> > >> not representative of
> > >> the masses.
> > >>
> > >> The sistahs in my circle wouldn't know a pair of
> > >> baggy jeans if they
> > >> slapped them in the face. Charm and flirt are our
> > >> middle names. Validate
> > >> your research with some exposure. Take your blinders
> > >> off and feed your
> > >> ignorance. There's an entire world that YOU are
> > >> missing out on!
> > >>
> > >> Peace and Blessings.
> > >>
> > >> Thanks Maggie and Frances.
> > >>
> > >> The message sent by this sistah girl to this so
> > >> called non-racist was
> > >> tastefully done. What was apparent to me was that
> > >> maybe he always wanted a
> > >> sistah, but due to his paranoia and stereotypical
> > >> attitude, he never gained
> > >> the confidence to do so.
> > >>
> > >> What is even more evident that if a true "sistah"
> > >> were to ever enter his
> > >> life, he would be forever changed. But then again,
> > >> he couldn't handle
> > >> it...you see, he's only looking at the surface
> > >> qualities. Did he ever stop
> > >> and wander why his ancestors went to the sistahs
> > >> over their "own"?
> > >>
> > >> This is nothing new here. We have always been the
> > >> desire of all races of
> > >> men and will always be. In addition to the fact that
> > >> we are true to
> > >> ourselves, strong, proud and naturally beautiful..we
> > >> are by far, one of the
> > >> most sensual creatures God has placed on this earth.
> > >>
> > >> Sorry, but Maggie you stirred a nerve here...funny
> > >> though how he compares
> > >> the white women to black women. If we are so lonely
> > >> due to
> > >> our"unattractiveness", would someone please explain
> > >> to me the never-ending
> > >> interest white women have in "bronzing" their skin,
> > >> learning our language
> > >> (to better relate to our brothers only to be
> > >> treated in ways that true
> > >> sistahs would NEVER tolerate),collagen
> > >> in their lips, hips and whatever else will take it
> > >> (that sistahs have by
> > >> nature) not to mention the urgency to stop their
> > >> aging process of her "age
> > >> defined" skin that God has taken care of for us
> > >> auomatically. The older we
> > >> get, the more beautiful we become! Such a wonderful
> > >> life? I think not.
> > >>
> > >> If I EVER have to adapt or sell out to be a part of
> > >> the world
> > >> that Jason lives in, Lord God, slap me quick so I
> > >> can go back to enjoying
> > >> my"loneliness".
> > >>
> > >> Sistahs, have a blessed day!
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